Helping midlife women who are burnt-out from frantically “saving the world,” respond to our times from deep wellness, grounded power, and fundamental ease.
Midlife can be a disorienting time for over-achieving, conscious women
We’ve have worked really hard to make a positive difference, and some of us have even achieved considerable success.
But many of us reach a point where we just can’t push anymore. There’s no gas left in the tank.
We care about the world, but we simply can’t keep going on like this.
Often, the very strategies we used to cope and succeed start losing their effectiveness. Things may feel like they’re starting to fall apart, and no matter how hard we try, we can’t seem to make them get back in order.
“None of my tricks work anymore. I’m at the end of the rope and can’t fool myself anymore.”
Something inside us starts asking “Is this it?”
The roles that used to define us, that gave us confidence and identity, don’t fit so well anymore.
We may start asking questions — “What’s wrong with me? Am I going crazy?,” or “Who am I?,” or “What do I really want,?” or “What am I actually here to do"?” — and we want answers from a deeper place.
We can feel depleted and lost, or like the ground is crumbling beneath our feet.
And yet… the world is on fire! I can’t just stop now!
You might feel deep shame that you can’t keep up “the good fight.”
If you’re feeling this way at midlife, it may not mean that there’s a problem that needs to be fixed.
It may mean that you’re standing at a profound initiatory threshold… beginning to awaken to your Queen phase of life.
The Quadruple Goddess
With our longer life spans, we have literally outgrown the old Triple-Goddess model of "Maiden--Mother--Crone."
We need a new model honoring the potency and importance of middle-aged women.
It is time for the Quadruple Goddess: "Maiden--Mother--QUEEN--Crone."
The Awakened Queen
What is an Awakened Queen?
An Awakened Queen is a woman who has crossed a profound developmental threshold into a new level of maturity, presence, and self-sovereignty. Here, “woman” honors all who identify as women, in all their diverse bodies and life journeys.
This is a journey into wholeness—spiritually, emotionally, physically, and soulfully—that honors your deepest self and your natural potency. She has gone through her “dark night of the soul” passage of unraveling and shedding old conditioning, is done “proving herself,” and has stepped into a radically new way of being.
An Awakened Queen is at peace with herself and in essential unity with life. She embodies her sovereignty, stands firmly in her authentic yes and no, and shares her strength with the world in service, rather than sacrifice. Her heart feels both the suffering and the beauty of life, yet she no longer bears the burden of martyrdom—she brings her gifts with clarity, compassion, and grace. She trusts herself and she trusts life.
The life-affirming power of the Divine Feminine radiates from her, and is in joyful service to the collective. She knows who she is here to be, and what is hers to do.
Learn more here: What is a Queen and How Do You Become One?
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Hello, I’m Margit!
Several years ago I was at the peak of my career. I co-led an award-winning statewide “green manufacturing” pilot project while simultaneously excelling in graduate school, working on my doctoral dissertation in imaginal psychology. I was receiving lots of positive feedback and having what I perceived to be a significant positive impact. I was on fire.
But then I hit The Wall. During a holiday break I realized I was completely depleted, and I crashed hard. I let go of my dissertation and I let go of my environmental engineering job. I felt empty and unanchored, asking myself "Who am I? What’s going on here? What the heck am I really here to do?"
Over the course of falling apart and following a spiritual path into a fully embodied, consciousness awakening, I have let go of my “savior complex” and am now fundamentally at peace with myself and the world.
I’m in my mid-60’s and feel like I’m in my prime. I have clarity about my unique gifts and purpose and I'm absolutely loving my "Queen" years of meaningful, grounded, and joyful service!
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We might be a good fit if...
You are a mature, self-aware person who identifies as a woman, in your mid-40’s or older.
Your children may be grown, and/ or you've outgrown your career.
You've tried really hard to make a difference in the world.
You care deeply about social and environmental issues, and have put your heart and shoulder to the wheel for years.
You're tired, disillusioned, dissatisfied, and feeling lost.
Your tolerance for bullshit is pretty much gone.
You cannot push yourself anymore.
You have no gas left in the tank. You can’t seem to make yourself do the things you used to do. The old ways of "making things work" no longer work.
You know "There's got to be more than this!"…
You question yourself: “Is this IT??”
…And you're pretty sick of self-improvement and spiritual seeking!
You’ve tried therapy and meditation and spiritual retreats and you can’t push yourself to “get better” anymore. Yet you still long for deeper meaning, truth, clarity, and connection.
Your "mother's milk" is leaking, and you ache to serve the world.
You know "I still have more gifts to share!"
You know "A more beautiful world is possible!"
But you’re completely fried and don't know how to get there…
You don’t have to do it alone!
If the above describes you, then you're on track: your discomfort may be a sign that you are in the "birth canal" of a natural and sacred initiatory process.
There's wise, seasoned support to help you navigate this passage with courage and grace!
Services
INDIVIDUAL COACHING
Highly attuned, 1-on-1 guidance to midwife your awakening and support your transition into full Queen-hood
GROUP COACHING
Groups of women meet for 4-8 weeks to practice key concepts & skills, enjoy connection & commitment, and revel in the alchemy of a “Circle of Queens”
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SUPPLEMENTAL SERVICES for Awakening Queens
Receive additional support on energetic and soul levels to refine your awakening, heal ancestral trauma, and connect with your deepest purpose.
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